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Situations Introductions Are you in deep conversation or can I join in? How’s your night going? What have you been up to today? Getting Contact Do you want to exchange contact information? Downer convo Before all of this politics ruin the vibe, I dont want to miss my chance of getting your number. Flirty Questions Tell me about last vacation you were on and why it was awesome....

About me What makes me happy Dogs Working on project together Playing music together Staying up late Live music Having fun with accents Bike ride Pickleball travelling cooking Want to do more Karaoke Music jams About partner Height: 5'5"-5'8"

Observations: things that are objectively observable Feelings: your feelings about them Needs: the needs you want met Requests: a proposal as to how you want your needs met

Compatibility Do we get along What are goals & passions Are we aligned Defining & Communicating Relationship Needs List “Non-Negotiables” List “How We Get To A Ten?” List “Would Be Nice” Relationship Anxiety never knowing where you stand trying to be what the other wants never knowing what other person wants, or who you should be never understanding “why I cant be me?” Women worry how much time their men will give them, while men worry how much time their women will take...

On Notepad Open to new page Write Date & Location Write Name & Contact info Topics discussed Expertise Plans, Wants TODO Appearance Pets Who they know Where they like to go Groups On Phone On Computer