Questions
- What is a friend?
- Why do people have friends?
- What is a good friend?
- Why have good friends?
- Who should I be friends with?
- What makes a person interesting?
- How to be an interesting person?
- How to be a good friend?
- How to find friends?
- How can I know if someone wants to be my friend?
- What is vulnerablity?
- Why be vulnerable? Why not?
- When to be vulnerable?
- Who can I be vulnerable with?
- What value do I bring to a friendship?
- How can I be a better friend?
- How do I spend more time with better friends?
- How much time to spend with friends?
- Why spend time with friends?
- How can I be a good listener?
- When should I give advice?
- How should I ask for advice?
- What are expectations?
- What is support?
- How do I know when I need support?
- How to be supportive to my friends?
- How to use my friends for support?
- When should I use my friends for support?
- What are the benefits and drawbacks of using my friends for support?
- What does “being there” mean?
- How can I “be there” for my friends?
- How many people can I “be there” for?
- Who should I “be there” for?
- What qualities to look for in a friend?
- Where should I look for friends?
- What are the most common problems in friendships?
- How should I feel around friends?
- How should my friends feel around me?
- What is respect?
- What is respect in friendships?
- Why respect your friends?
- How to respect my friends?
- When should I respect my friends?
- What are the top causes of disrespect?
- How to be respectful?
- What is compatability?
- What is admiration?
- Who do I admire?
- How to admire my friends?
- How to have friends I admire?
- What is a secret?
- How to keep a secret?
- When to share a secret?
- What is trust?
- Why be trustworthty?
- How to be trustworthy?
- How to regain broken trust?
- Am I trustworthy?
- How can I tell someone is trustworthy?
- What are the behaviors of a trustworhty person?
- What are the behaviors of an untrustworthy person?
- What are the advantages & disadvantages of trustworthy behaviors? Untrustworthy behaviors?
- How do I know if my friends are bad for me?
- How can I spend less time around bad friends?
- What are the behaviors of a good friend?
- How can I do more of those behaviors?
- What are the most common challenges with doing those behaviors?
- How can I overcome the most common challenges in being a good friend?
- Should I date a friend?
- What are the most common problems with dating a friend?
- What are the advantages and disadvantages in dating a friend?
- What is fun?
- What is a fun friend?
- How to be a fun friend?
- How to find fun friends?
- What are some fun activities?
- How to plan a fun activity?
- When to plan a fun activity?
- How to invite people to a fun activity?
- How to get help in planning a fun activity?
- How to make friends with my neighbors?
- Why be friends with neighbors?
- How to meet my neighbors?
- What is a good neighbor?
- How to have fun with neighbors?
- What is a party?
- What types of parties are there?
- Why party?
- What makes a good party?
- What are common problems with a party?
- Where should I have a party?
- Who should I invite to a party?
- What is the best food for a party?
- When should I have a party?
- What is the best music for a party?
- What is dancing?
- Why do people dance?
- How to have fun dancing?
- When to dance?
- When to dance at a party?
- What is the best music to dance to?
- What are the roles at a party?
- What type of person is best at those roles?
- Why follow-up with friends?
- How to follow-up with friends?
- When to follow-up with friends?
- How to dress for a party?
- Why dress up for a party?
- When dress up for a party?
- Which of my friends knows how to party?
- How to get friends to help out with a party?
- How much does a party cost?
- What is live music?
- Why live music?
- Why live music at a party?
- Which live music is best for a party?
- What musicians do I know?
- Who do I know, who knows musicians?
- How much does it cost to have a musician play at a party?
- What do musicians value?
Stages & Qualities of Relationships
Advice
- “be interesting enough that the person has a reason to remember you.”
- To get a good friend, you must first be a good friend
Tools
- Personal Relationship Mananger
- UpHabit Journal + Retro
- Journalling About People
- F.YES? or F.NO x 3
Action Plan
What can I do right now to get good friends?
What can I do right now to inprove my friendships?
Related
- Interesting Questions