Questions

  • What is a friend?
  • Why do people have friends?
  • What is a good friend?
  • Why have good friends?
  • Who should I be friends with?
  • What makes a person interesting?
  • How to be an interesting person?
  • How to be a good friend?
  • How to find friends?
  • How can I know if someone wants to be my friend?
  • What is vulnerablity?
  • Why be vulnerable? Why not?
  • When to be vulnerable?
  • Who can I be vulnerable with?
  • What value do I bring to a friendship?
  • How can I be a better friend?
  • How do I spend more time with better friends?
  • How much time to spend with friends?
  • Why spend time with friends?
  • How can I be a good listener?
  • When should I give advice?
  • How should I ask for advice?
  • What are expectations?
  • What is support?
  • How do I know when I need support?
  • How to be supportive to my friends?
  • How to use my friends for support?
  • When should I use my friends for support?
  • What are the benefits and drawbacks of using my friends for support?
  • What does “being there” mean?
  • How can I “be there” for my friends?
  • How many people can I “be there” for?
  • Who should I “be there” for?
  • What qualities to look for in a friend?
  • Where should I look for friends?
  • What are the most common problems in friendships?
  • How should I feel around friends?
  • How should my friends feel around me?
  • What is respect?
  • What is respect in friendships?
  • Why respect your friends?
  • How to respect my friends?
  • When should I respect my friends?
  • What are the top causes of disrespect?
  • How to be respectful?
  • What is compatability?
  • What is admiration?
  • Who do I admire?
  • How to admire my friends?
  • How to have friends I admire?
  • What is a secret?
  • How to keep a secret?
  • When to share a secret?
  • What is trust?
  • Why be trustworthty?
  • How to be trustworthy?
  • How to regain broken trust?
  • Am I trustworthy?
  • How can I tell someone is trustworthy?
  • What are the behaviors of a trustworhty person?
  • What are the behaviors of an untrustworthy person?
  • What are the advantages & disadvantages of trustworthy behaviors? Untrustworthy behaviors?
  • How do I know if my friends are bad for me?
  • How can I spend less time around bad friends?
  • What are the behaviors of a good friend?
  • How can I do more of those behaviors?
  • What are the most common challenges with doing those behaviors?
  • How can I overcome the most common challenges in being a good friend?
  • Should I date a friend?
  • What are the most common problems with dating a friend?
  • What are the advantages and disadvantages in dating a friend?
  • What is fun?
  • What is a fun friend?
  • How to be a fun friend?
  • How to find fun friends?
  • What are some fun activities?
  • How to plan a fun activity?
  • When to plan a fun activity?
  • How to invite people to a fun activity?
  • How to get help in planning a fun activity?
  • How to make friends with my neighbors?
  • Why be friends with neighbors?
  • How to meet my neighbors?
  • What is a good neighbor?
  • How to have fun with neighbors?
  • What is a party?
  • What types of parties are there?
  • Why party?
  • What makes a good party?
  • What are common problems with a party?
  • Where should I have a party?
  • Who should I invite to a party?
  • What is the best food for a party?
  • When should I have a party?
  • What is the best music for a party?
  • What is dancing?
  • Why do people dance?
  • How to have fun dancing?
  • When to dance?
  • When to dance at a party?
  • What is the best music to dance to?
  • What are the roles at a party?
  • What type of person is best at those roles?
  • Why follow-up with friends?
  • How to follow-up with friends?
  • When to follow-up with friends?
  • How to dress for a party?
  • Why dress up for a party?
  • When dress up for a party?
  • Which of my friends knows how to party?
  • How to get friends to help out with a party?
  • How much does a party cost?
  • What is live music?
  • Why live music?
  • Why live music at a party?
  • Which live music is best for a party?
  • What musicians do I know?
  • Who do I know, who knows musicians?
  • How much does it cost to have a musician play at a party?
  • What do musicians value?

Stages & Qualities of Relationships

Advice

  • “be interesting enough that the person has a reason to remember you.”
  • To get a good friend, you must first be a good friend

Tools

  • Personal Relationship Mananger
  • UpHabit Journal + Retro
  • Journalling About People
  • F.YES? or F.NO x 3

Action Plan

What can I do right now to get good friends?

What can I do right now to inprove my friendships?

Related

  • Interesting Questions

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